How can a victoria secret's addicted buyer save money?

there use to be a time wheni used to not have any money to buy what i like. i used to not even have money for neccesary stuff i needed. i have ajob now but i kind of get addicted to expensive things: victoria secret's, tiffany, coach, abercrombie etc. i work hard for my money ad i try at least to save few when i can. but i am not happy because i spend to much money on those things. eventhough i have those things but i never feel happy i feel like i could have done more. i have an empty feel tat comes and go all the time. i wish i had some web site training where instead of going to spend money to the mall i used my skills to make money. i work hard for my money but i wish that i could have been busy making money more often. my biggest fear is to not have enough money to cover my needs. i stay home today eventhough i knw there was sale eerywhere. i want to buy my own ouse in the future. how to i save enough moey to buy a home ?

my peers are offering you want you are asking for; I will offer you what
you need; you need couseling for
an AFFLICTION. Just like being
an alcoholic or chain smoker.
Compulsive buyers are sick people.
YOU should watch dr phil and
go to a counselor who can talk to you.

buying fills, IMPROPERLY, a
psychological need. If you had
a hundred million dollars, you would
not have enough money--why?
Cause you have a 'buying' illness.

Normal people buy to satisfy
food, chothing, shelter,
"Maslow's hierarchy of needs" Needs.

DO you know why a drug user steals?
he needs to satisfy an illness.
Instead of visiting a doctor, he
uses drugs.

Please find a counselor and find
out what you lack internally. WE all
have weaknesses and many of
us have illnesses. I almost died
from 2 of mine in youth--so I am
speaking from experience.
[i was 45 min from death!]

Go to the clerance section

find alternatives at the mall near u that arnt as expensive u can buy cheaper things that look just as good
and abercombie always seems to have tables of stuff on sale for good prices

It sounds to me like you are using the quick rush from shopping/acquiring things to fill a void in your life.

Some people use food, some use gambling, some use drugs, some use liquor and some shop. All suffer in their lives in one way or the other.

Take the money you would spend shopping and go and find a good counselor/psychologist to help you uncover the reasons you feel this way and give you ways to fill the hole that won't break the bank.

Good luck to you and KNOW that the first step in any recovery is recognizing that you have a problem. You have completed this first step so don't stop now.